gossip column!

Whoa! This week zipped a little too fast for me! I cant believe that the last time I blogged was last Saturday! Hmm….that just sank in…and its depressing in a strange way. Anyhoo, I got lotsa stuff done this week so it’s all justified. I find it quite strange though…retrospect is a weird one! Aaah…I’m in no mood to go deep today so I’ll stop that train of thought right there! But I will tattle on a couple of my friends today…I rarely gossip…but I can’t hold back today. So, bite me!

So, this friend of mine likes this guy who lives close to her apartment. She spends all day waiting for his phone call (I don’t think he has ever called her though!) and hoping to catch a glimpse of him whenever he enters/exits his place. She calls me up several times a day to talk about him….asking me what she should say/not say….asking me how to ask him out….telling me about his mannerisms…and how she thinks he is playing hard to get….about her conversations with him and everything else. I find it quite funny though…its almost like I am having a relationship with a “virtual” him.

I know that in certain cases…the establishing of a relationship requires a little nudging…but nudging and wrestling a guy to say a yes are extremely different! As life would have it, my dear friend is doing the latter…which I think is driving him away from her. I personally believe subtlety is the key….and telling a guy that you’re crashing into his apartment on Sunday to watch super-bowl (when you don’t know the F of football!) isn’t subtle!!

Sigh! People! People!! I can’t shake my head enough when I say that!

Ummm….forget Friend # 2…lemme talk about whats going on with me for a bit. An ex boyfriend is trying his best to get back into my life, a student is trying to hit on me, I am trying to hit on a student….and a professor….and a classmate!! (That’s just a small fraction of what I like to call my very own “hit list”!) But I don’t see that as infidelity for 2 reasons! I am the devil’s own…so my threshold level for wrongdoing is set quite high. Secondly, I’ll stop flirting around the day I get engaged….before that…I shall flirt with whomever I wish to flirt with! Period!

Well…I should get back to work now! Next week is mid term week and I should get something done before I start to get frustrated at myself!!

Cheers!